Children respect us if we behave the way we do.
Those who worship parents as gods, in stories and in myths, it is also said that the mother and father are the teachers of God.
Whether parents worship them in real life or not depends on the way they behave in front of their children. Here, no one is born to worship anyone. They also go to God for selfish reasons, for example, for an American visa or for a rank, a job, or something else. Some people say that I pray for everyone to be well without any desire, but there is selfishness there too. What does that mean, God listens only if I recommend it. How can parents be worshipped when they do not worship God without any desire?
Parents are worshipped according to their behavior and the needs of the children. They do various things to control their children, they naturally lie. Parents sometimes pressurize them without accepting their mistakes.
If my son accidentally puts on the wrong pair of shoes, I come and correct him, saying that I am a psychologist and that what I said was correct. Then who are you, my son? Why should I admit it when I did not do anything wrong? I realized what I did wrong, so I said sorry and apologized.
Admitting that I made a mistake is considered bad in our culture. But when we try to suppress mistakes, then children understand and notice everything.
For example, when children are close to their classmates, when their parents do not like them, that is, when their caste, religion or ideology differ, they lie to disconnect from them. They tell all kinds of lies that they are wrong people, worthless people.
Children do not believe just because you tell them, children also have logical thinking, they confirm whether what you tell them is true or not. That is, they understand that their parents are lying by talking to them. We also introduce lies by telling moral stories to children.
The rest. I will write tomorrow.
