How to understand others. Don’t enter anyone’s life without permission.
Why understanding others is not to enter their lives and handle them. It is to see them and understand our mistakes too.
There were two older sisters. One of them was an average student. She looked for a small job and did that job. The girl who did that job got depressed. What is the reason for that depression? That girl’s older sister has another girl; she is not doing any job. But she prepares for civil services, and if she doesn’t get that job, she keeps preparing for another job. She hasn’t even done a small job. That girl who didn’t do a job always brainwashes her younger sister, saying, “You can survive with a small job; what big goals should you set?”
This girl has not achieved any job. But she keeps gaslighting her sister, saying that what she is doing is a small job and that she should set big goals. That is the problem of that girl.
We also enter into other people’s lives without knowing it and give advice.
In relationships, it is the same with children and cousin siblings.
If you know that you are getting a fever, even those around you will give you all that advice, even if they do not ask. It causes a lot of trouble for those around you. They are suffocating.
Even relationships are the same; any relationship may have to break up at some point. Marriage is not permanent either. There is also the option of divorce in marriage.
You should know that any relationship has a chance of breaking up. Apart from that, I am fine, but they keep asking why she cheated on me. She has that freedom; she did not like something in you. What is wrong? She may have found a better choice than you.
You may have loved many people before. But you got into a relationship with this girl because you thought she was better. She may have also found another better option. If that girl doesn’t cheat, she will cheat. If she finds a better option tomorrow morning, she may also cheat.
So, no matter what stage you are in a relationship, if the other person doesn’t want you, you should stop.
I have invested so much, why did I invest so much, to impress that girl and take her to privacy and have sex with her. Understanding your mischievousness, she may have distanced herself from you and made another choice.
Even girls are like that; they ask you why you are online and not replying to me. That is his choice.
We should know our boundaries. We should not go beyond our boundaries and enter other people’s lives. We should not try to control them.
Your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your wife, and your husband are not your property.
No human being is ours. There is no need to get too involved in the lives of even our children.
How did you write the exam, how many marks did you get? Who are you talking to?
They keep making fun of them. Then there is a chance that they will slowly detach from us and become attached to someone else.
