Parenting Teenagers,How to handle teenagers.
We studied for 16 to 18 years to get a job. How much more should we study for our children’s lives? Mistakes made due to lack of understanding can affect their lives. We learned about trust versus mistrust. Because of such mistakes, it becomes difficult to remove the negative impact on children, no matter how much money we spend.
That’s why parenting is a very important subject. If we can instill confidence in a generation of children, this country will change. Confidence doesn’t mean just motivating them, but providing proper parenting. We are earning a lot of money, but we are neglecting our children.From the age of 12, these children slowly start developing hormones. For girls, periods start between the ages of 9 and 11. For boys, they experience ejaculation for the first time between the ages of 11 and 13.
This means the body is preparing itself for reproduction.
The problem arises when they are playing with younger children, and people say, “Are you still a child?” And if they talk to older people, they are told to go away. Biologically, many changes are happening in their bodies. Especially for girls, they get very scared when they get their periods. Parents don’t educate them. Because of the changes happening in their bodies, the confusion is so great that they have no option but to compare themselves with their classmates to understand. If one girl looks heavier than the others, everyone else looks at her strangely.
How to handle teenagers.How to handle teenagers.
Even teachers, in general, even female teachers, can be abusive in their language. They vent all their frustration on these children. Not all teachers are like this; there are good teachers too.
There are teachers who scold them saying, “If you get married, you will give birth to four children, and you don’t even know this?” I don’t know if this is still happening now, but I heard a lot of such things when I was young.Some boys, even at 13 or 14 years old, have high levels of the testosterone hormone, causing them to grow moustaches and beards and appear very tall. Due to a lack of proper education, they sometimes attack girls, even their own sisters at home. They don’t know any better; they are just children. At this time, professional consultation is needed to understand how to handle them. They need to be educated about sex education and masturbation.
It is also at this age that some transgender individuals realise their true gender identity. Parents need to understand this. They should not try to force them into a particular gender. Being transgender is not wrong. Being transgender is not inferior. It is not a mistake or a crime. Think about how much their hearts will ache if you don’t treat them properly. Whether they are girls, boys, or transgender, they are your children.
