Teenage love is now a major problem for parents and society. Parents constantly try to explain to their children that there is no genuineness in that love. But the teenagers, whether a boy or a girl, genuinely feel it. They don’t accept that it won’t last in their teenage years.
We think teenage love is real. There are many dreams and promises. Later, the boy doesn’t realise that he will change. The girl doesn’t realise it either.
A mother reacts more strongly to the news that her son is in love than to the news that he is smoking.
Smoking causes more damage. It damages the lungs and can lead to a heart attack. Yet, what causes more pain is falling in love with a girl. Love is natural. Smoking is a cultural habit. We should actually react more strongly to smoking, but we react more strongly when we hear that someone is in love. The reaction is natural, not cultural.
When children develop feelings of love for someone, parents suddenly lash out. They call them characterless. Due to their fears, parents become extremely insecure. If it’s the boy’s parents, they call the girl characterless. They even scold the girl’s parents.Some people feel proud when they find out that their son is in love.
A war should never be fought with hatred or anger, but intelligently.
This issue should not be handled with anger or arrogance as soon as it becomes known.
Children observe their parents from the moment they wake up in the morning. They notice their dramas.
According to human psychology, no one is willing to be handled by others. So, usually, they counter.
Actually, teenagers counter more often. For example, there is an exam on Monday. He didn’t study on Wednesday because there was Bigg Boss. When he wanted to study on Thursday, there was a cricket match. The parents didn’t say anything before, but now on Friday, he took out a book to study. Let’s say the father comes and scolds him, “There’s an exam on Monday; what have you been doing until now?” Then he will close the book and throw it away.
Now, when this feeling of love arises, and the parents find out about it, the father scolds him severely, “Do you need love at this age?” A relationship hasn’t even formed yet. But since the father said that, a counter-response is important.
I am a hero; I am very committed. I have to prove myself to my parents, to society, and to that faculty.
Until now, that girl was important, but now because I have to prove myself, love is important.
That boy is not a good person; he is not studying properly. When parents tell their daughter this, she tries to counter them by saying that the boy is a good person.
A boy told a girl 10 things. Eight of them were lies, but two were true. Now the girl focuses on those two things and says, “You are lying; that boy is a good person.”
All this happened because the parents stressed her out.
Don’t panic when your teenage children say they are in love. Relax a little.
What do parents do? They say things like, “You don’t have financial freedom. You don’t have the right to love. How will you live if you get married tomorrow?”
But it’s not like this in the movies, is it? This love is a result of hormonal influence and the influence of movies. And they illogically say that because you don’t have money, you don’t have the right to love.When it comes to love, people often say, “He’s a bad person.” Instead of that, let them be. Let them be friends; set some limits for them.
If they are talking to each other, let them.
The parents’ fear is that they might participate in sexual activity. In such situations, when they go to the movies, you book the tickets yourself and send two other people along with them. Invite them to your house two or three more times.
That’s why there should be an emotional bond between children and parents. And you should have information. They won’t tell you what you don’t want to hear.
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