Teenage parenting Identity vs role confusion
They try to control them by criticizing and mocking them. Then they become rebellious.
That’s why, if you observe teenage girls when they go to functions, they dress nicely. They observe their surroundings. If someone says, “Your dress is nice, you look good,” their ego is satisfied. This applies to both females and males. Someone needs to acknowledge them. The same is true for boys. They get various kinds of haircuts.
Their hormones have increased. Testosterone levels have risen. They are seeking an identity.
That’s why they behave that way.
Children are now being treated like chickens in a poultry farm; everyone is in the same schools and colleges, with 8 or 10 boys in a single room. Most colleges are like that. There are separate colleges for boys and girls. People think, “Since they are all boys here, what could possibly happen?” What happens is that there will be one boy who is strong and tall. He will have a greater influence of hormones. Among those eight boys, one boy is very small, still having chubby cheeks and looking cute.
Now, what this strong boy does is, when he experiences sexual desire, he preys on this cute, small boy. That is, he doesn’t fulfill his sexual desire completely. He touches him frequently, touches his private parts, and satisfies himself in various ways. This shorter boy also cannot tell anyone about these things. He might be thinking that if he endures it two or three times, he can then go about his own business. This is called learned helplessness.
Moreover, if someone ever picks a fight with that shorter boy, what does the taller boy do? He goes to support him, saying, “I won’t tolerate anyone saying anything to him.”
This is how gay culture develops unknowingly. Homosexuality doesn’t arise naturally; it develops culturally in this way. All of this might seem very simple at first glance, but these things become very complicated. That’s why I keep saying that parenting is a very difficult task.Sexual abuse happens not only to girls but also to boys.
When does this abuse mostly occur? When students join colleges for intermediate education, the college management appoints some people as junior lecturers. They are not actual lecturers, but they are recruited for study hours. These individuals often mislead and abuse girls with various kinds of talk.
In intermediate colleges, some students are quite attractive. These junior lecturers, with the intention of trapping such students, harass them a lot. Many may not give in, but they are subjected to immense torture. This torture can lead to frigidity, which can last a lifetime. Anxiety can also develop. Because of all these problems, parents need to be very vigilant.
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